[Naresome Research Survey] Does Controlling the Household Lead to Happiness? No Correlation Between 'Desire for Control' and Marital Satisfaction

Naresome Research Institute, operated by Naresome Inc., conducted a survey on 'Marital Relationships and Life Satisfaction 2026' among 91 married men. The results revealed that what determines marital satisfaction for men is not the 'sense of having control at home,' but rather the 'sense of being recognized for one's existence and contributions.' The analysis showed a strong positive correlation between 'recognition of existence/contribution' and satisfaction, while there was no correlation between 'dominance/superiority' and satisfaction. Keita Yamazaki, a love psychologist, points out that men often unconsciously mistake control for recognition, but what they truly seek is a sense of security. He suggests that the key to a happy marriage is not about who is in charge, but about building a relationship where both partners acknowledge each other's contributions.