Why are restaurants and cafes preferred for a first date?

They provide a natural environment for conversation. While movies and shopping are popular, the priority is mutual understanding through dialogue.

How much does phone usage during a date affect impressions?

It is the most disliked behavior, with 153 respondents rating it negatively. It signals a lack of focus on the partner and reduces the chance of a second date.

Why is the third date considered the best timing for confession?

It follows a psychological cycle where the first two dates are for evaluation and the third for confirmation. Too early causes alarm; too late suggests lack of interest.

Restaurants Rank #1 for Pre-Dating Spot; 3rd Date Most Popular for Confessions (Happy Mail Survey)

Published Jun 18, 2026 7:40 PM ・ Updated Jun 18, 2026 4:30 PM ・ 3 min read ・ Source: PR TIMES

A survey of 200 adults by matching app Happy Mail revealed that restaurants are the top choice for dates, listening with a smile is key to success, and the third date is the ideal time to confess feelings.

IBEC Co., Ltd. (Fukuoka City), operator of the matching app 'Happy Mail' with over 35 million members, conducted a survey of 200 adults regarding 'dates before official relationships.' The study aggregated data on ideal locations, positive/negative impressions, and confession timing.

1. Ideal Date Locations: 'Restaurants and Cafes' ranked first with 163 respondents, followed by 'Movies' (95) and 'Shopping Malls' (68). Places that facilitate natural conversation are highly favored.

2. Positive Impressions: 'Listening with a smile' was the top answer (155 respondents). Women placed a significantly higher emphasis on 'cleanliness' and 'subtle consideration' compared to men.

3. Negative Impressions: 'Constantly using a smartphone' was the top grievance (153 respondents), followed by 'bad manners' and 'negative remarks.' Notably, 57 women expressed strong wariness toward 'physical contact' compared to only 4 men.

4. Confession Timing: The '3rd date' was the most popular choice for both genders (117 total), with more than half of respondents considering it ideal. Early confessions on the first date were unpopular.

5. Memorable Moments: In open-ended responses, many participants highlighted moments where 'conversation was lively' or they 'enjoyed a shared hobby,' emphasizing that quality communication is more important than the venue itself.

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Source: PR TIMES
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Restaurants Rank #1 for Pre-Dating Spot; 3rd Date Most Popular for Confessions (Happy Mail Survey)

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