Why is it important to keep incense burning during a wake? What does 'the incense must not be extinguished' mean? Understanding common funeral taboos

In traditional Taiwanese funerals, family members take turns watching over the incense to ensure it never goes out. This practice, known as 'the incense must not be extinguished,' carries deeper significance than just a taboo. This article explains the practical aspects of wakes and how modern funeral practices have evolved.

The Meaning of Wakes A wake is a period where family members stay with the deceased until the formal funeral. Historically, some regions practiced 'sleeping by the coffin,' where family members would sleep near the coffin to accompany the deceased.

The Significance of Incense The term 'incense' refers not only to the incense used in rituals but also to descendants and cultural inheritors. 'The incense must not be extinguished' symbolizes respect for the deceased and the continuation of family lineage and memory.

Modern Funeral Practices Today, with the availability of body preservation and funeral homes, the form of wakes has changed. The use of environmental incense and electronic incense is increasing.

Funeral Taboos 1. Is it allowed to sleep during a wake? Traditionally, family members could rest near the coffin, but modern practices allow for more flexibility based on funeral home regulations and family decisions.

2. Can women perform the main ritual? Modern practices are more flexible, allowing women to perform rituals based on family circumstances and the deceased's wishes.

3. Why avoid bright clothing at funerals? Traditionally, mourning attire is modest and solemn to express respect for the deceased.

4. Why keep animals away from the body? Historically, this was for body protection, but modern reasons include hygiene and religious beliefs.

5. What happens if you cry too much? Some regions and religions advise against excessive contact with the body, but the key is showing respect for the deceased.